Friday, August 7, 2009

Misunderstood..........Big Mouth

It is not unusual that those who say much, will be more likely to be misunderstood more. The more miles a person drives the more likely he will be involved in an accident. A man who never goes fishing, will never catch fish.
Often, when speaking to others, or preaching from the pulpit, I say things that are grossly misinterpreted from what my original intention was. Listening to myself on recordings convinces me that at times I am not accurate with my presentation of even simple truths. Carefulness with my words is something that I must concern myself with if I ever expect to effectively communicate the truths of the gospel.

But it does not stop with the gospel.

Simple daily facts and stories can take on a life all of their own if I am not careful to speak each word with decided intentions. One may say, "This is too much trouble, I cannot worry about every word I say!" I would agree, there is MUCH trouble with this. The problem is REAL trouble comes from not weighing all our words in the balance.

How often have we hurt those we love by thoughtless words?
How often have we deceived others simply by not including all the pertinent facts?
I am guilty on all points.

Many times, it is senseless on our part and even unintentional, but it happens none the less.
Jesus encourages us to a careful watch over our mouths by reminding us in Mat 12:36 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. Well, that settles it for me. I am sunk unless I repent. And thus I do. Daily. Sometimes hourly due to my failings.

Thus, with the psalmist I cry to God "Set a watch, O LORD, before my mouth; keep the door of my lips." Ps. 141:3

One would think this gets easier as you get older...hardly. Our minds not only fill up with more information, but we forget what we have committed to others and promised as well. So with the influx of information, we continue to falter in this area. But with all excuses aside, I must strive for perfection!

The mercy of those that say they love us must be relied upon in this instance. Forgiveness must be ready to be meted out to those who trespass against us in this area as well.

Let us think before we speak, and thus fulfill the scriptures: "Jas 1:19 Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:"


Our family said...

By the way, this post was really good, but my main reason for writing this comment is (and you don't have to post it) is because you have "Ads by Google" on your blog. Typically the ads are harmless, but the current ad I'm seeing (and maybe won't be there by the time you read this) is an ad for a web game that shows a very scantilly clad woman on it with most of her chest showing. If someone else came to this blog they might get the wrong impression or think it was on purpose or something. You might want to think about taking "Ads by Google" off perhaps. It's probably not worth the few cents you might be making. Just letting you know. Thanks for preaching the truth!

Melissa B

Puritan Dilemma said...

Thanks Melissa! I had no idea. According to Google, the ads will closely relate to what the topic actually is on the, how off could they be. The ads are officially gone... I hope...
Thanks for the warning!

Our family said...

Your welcome! Yeah, I thought Google was supposed to have related ads. Typically a Christian blog has Christian ads, but you never know I guess. That's why I've never put those ads on my blogs.

By the way, we're officially moved into our new house down the road and totally unpacked and we might be visiting you guys again soon. We'll just have to see what the hubby wants to do. : )

Gospel Preacher said...

Just re-read this post, thanks again, how quickly our mouths will get us in trouble, but what a weapon for truth and righteousness when bridled by the Spirit!